Rabu, 02 September 2009

Will a family therapist help my marriage

One of the problems that is hardest to deal with is when someone experiences marriage problems. Your children, your health, and your job. Problems in a marriage usually grow and develop.It is when it is in early stages like this when you want to stop it. From my experience as a marriage counselor in San Diego I know it first hand.The relationships where you see it is most difficult to fix are the ones where the couple waited too long to find a way to fix it.

There are a lot of reasons that relationships start to sour.It could be money problems. It could be not communicating. For example if it is due to finances if the couple is starting to fight over it that's not good.Yes finances are important in life, but arguing doesn't help matters.And if you see yourselves getting into fights over it, you have to get help. As a family therapist in San Diego I have seen couples wait too long.
Not having the ability to communicate causes a lot of problems.It can be the beginning of small problems growing larger. But if you realize that you two aren't communicating well it is time.

Not being able to communicate makes small problems seem bigger.But when you have a counselor a couple might be able to learn how to communicate.They could learn some techniques that will teach them how to listen better.

Doing these few steps can avert a big marriage problem.Doing a little bit of preventitive measures can help in a lot of ways.

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